Sometimes being a best friend is more work than is anticipated with the title. I recently found out that my very best childhood friends boyfriend is seeking attention from other ladies via text message. Maybe it’s the advancement in technology that is causing things to become lost in translation. Like when you’re a kid and an unwanted pop-up comes up on your computer just as your mother is walking into the room … needless to say it’s usually an ad for some new sex toy or pornographic promotion. That’s a time when ones actions are defined by something that is out of their control.
So, do I simply assume that this is one of those “situations” or do I take matters into my own hands, only to devastate my friends love live and potentially hinder our future relationship. Or, should I just stop being selfish thinking only of my relationship with her, and just tell her so she can make the decision for herself.
To make matters worse, the informant of information was Mr. Santorini himself. Things have been going so well between the two of us, and I fear that by me telling my friend of her boyfriends careless activities it could come full circle and bite my relationship with Mr. Santorini in the ass.
There is only one word to describe all of this nonsense. FUCK.
While I’m typically full of philosophical insight and incandescently voiced opinions I’m all out of words for this one.
Words of advice are open and openly accepted.
Is honesty really the best policy?